Sticky toffee pudding often feels like a dessert meant for sharing, piled high in a big bowl, everyone digging in with spoons. But I’ve found that turning it into individual portions makes it feel just as indulgent and a whole lot easier to serve at small gatherings or cozy nights in. It’s about keeping that warm, gooey charm but making it feel a little more personal, a little more special.
There’s a quiet joy in assembling these little puddings—each one a tiny, caramel-scented package of comfort. Plus, it’s surprisingly simple to scale down, so you can whip up a batch for just one or two without any fuss. That way, you get all the richness without the leftovers hanging around, tempting you when you least need it.
Focusing on how this rich dessert can be adapted for small gatherings, making it easier to serve in individual portions without losing the cozy, indulgent feel. It’s about turning a traditionally communal dish into a personal, comforting treat for intimate moments or unexpected guests.
Indulgence in Personal Portions
- Baking this pudding always takes me back to cozy winter evenings at my grandma’s house, where the smell of caramel filled every corner.
- There’s a thrill in pouring the boiling toffee sauce over the warm sponge and hearing that satisfying crackle as it seeps in.
- I love how the gooey richness makes even a small slice feel like a decadent treat, perfect for when you need comfort without overdoing it.
- Sometimes I add a splash of bourbon or a sprinkle of sea salt—small tweaks that turn this classic into a personal indulgence.
The story behind this recipe
Growing up, I remember my mother making sticky toffee pudding on chilly Sunday afternoons. The kitchen would fill with a deep, caramel aroma that lingered long after the last spoonful. That cozy, almost nostalgic scent has always stayed with me, making this dessert more than just a sweet treat—it’s a reminder of home and simple pleasures. Over the years, I’ve tweaked her recipe, adding a touch of sea salt and using a slightly denser sponge, to deepen the flavor and make it feel like a special, intimate indulgence for any small gathering or quiet night in.
Historical & Cultural Trivia
- Sticky toffee pudding originated in Britain in the 1970s, quickly becoming a beloved dessert across the UK.
- The rich, caramelized flavor comes from boiling dates, which were historically used as a sweetener before refined sugar was widespread.
- Despite its British roots, variations of date-based puddings appear in Middle Eastern and North African cuisines, showcasing a shared love for date desserts.
- The pudding gained international fame partly through British chefs and TV chefs who popularized its indulgent, gooey texture.
- Traditionally served with a generous drizzle of warm toffee sauce, it’s a dish that’s evolved from rustic comfort food to a gourmet treat.
Ingredient breakdown: key components
- Dates: I love how soft, sticky, and deeply caramelized they get when simmered. For a richer flavor, try Medjool dates—chewy and sweet, they add a luxurious depth.
- Unsalted butter: It’s the base of my sponge, offering a tender crumb. Use high-quality butter—your palate will thank you with a richer aroma and flavor.
- Dark brown sugar: It gives the pudding that deep, molasses-like sweetness that’s essential. If you don’t have it, light brown sugar can work, but expect a milder caramel tone.
- Heavy cream: I pour it into the toffee sauce for a silky, luscious finish. For dairy-free, coconut cream makes a rich, fragrant alternative with a hint of coconut aroma.
- Self-raising flour: Keeps the sponge airy and light. If you’re out, a mix of plain flour + baking powder (1 teaspoon per cup) works fine, but the texture might be slightly denser.
- Baking soda: It reacts with the dates’ natural acids, helping the sponge rise. For a softer crumb, make sure it’s fresh—old baking soda won’t do its job.
- Vanilla extract: I add just a splash to enhance the sweetness. For a twist, a tiny pinch of sea salt can really boost the caramel flavor and balance the sweetness.
Spotlight on key ingredients
Dates:
- I love how soft, sticky, and deeply caramelized they get when simmered. For a richer flavor, try Medjool dates—chewy and sweet, they add a luxurious depth.
- Unsalted butter: It’s the base of my sponge, offering a tender crumb. Use high-quality butter—your palate will thank you with a richer aroma and flavor.
Dark brown sugar:
- It gives the pudding that deep, molasses-like sweetness that’s essential. If you don’t have it, light brown sugar can work, but expect a milder caramel tone.
- Heavy cream: I pour it into the toffee sauce for a silky, luscious finish. For dairy-free, coconut cream makes a rich, fragrant alternative with a hint of coconut aroma.
Notes for ingredient swaps
- Dairy-Free: Use coconut milk or almond milk instead of cream for the sauce—rich and fragrant, but with a nutty twist.
- Gluten-Free: Swap all-purpose flour for a gluten-free baking blend—still tender, but watch for potential texture differences.
- Vegan: Replace butter with coconut oil or vegan margarine, and eggs with mashed banana or flaxseed meal—still moist, with a slight flavor shift.
- Less Sweet: Use maple syrup or honey in the sauce instead of brown sugar—adds a different depth, with a warm, smoky note.
- Date Varieties: Medjool dates bring richness; if you want a milder sweetness, Deglet Noor dates work, but expect a less intense caramel flavor.
Equipment & Tools
- Oven: Bake the puddings evenly.
- Mixing bowls: Combine ingredients.
- Saucepan: Make toffee sauce and soften dates.
- Spatula: Fold ingredients and smooth batter.
- Ramekins or small mugs: Portion individual puddings.
- Baking sheet: Hold ramekins during baking.
- Skewer or toothpick: Test doneness.
Step-by-step guide to sticky toffee pudding
- Preheat your oven to 180°C (350°F). Grease four small ramekins or ovenproof mugs with butter, dust lightly with flour or sugar, and set aside.
- In a saucepan, combine 150g (⅔ cup) chopped Medjool dates with 150ml (⅝ cup) boiling water. Add 1 teaspoon baking soda. Stir and let sit for 10 minutes until dates are soft and mixture is thickened.
- In a mixing bowl, cream 100g (½ cup) unsalted butter with 150g (¾ cup) dark brown sugar until light and fluffy, about 3-4 minutes.
- Beat in 2 large eggs one at a time, then add 1 teaspoon vanilla extract. Mix until well combined.
- Stir in the soaked dates (with liquid) until evenly distributed. Then fold in 150g (1¼ cups) self-raising flour gently until just combined. Do not overmix.
- Divide the batter evenly among the prepared ramekins. Smooth the tops with a spatula. Place on a baking sheet and bake for 20-25 minutes, or until the tops are golden and a skewer inserted in the center comes out with moist crumbs.
- Meanwhile, make the toffee sauce: In a small saucepan, melt 100g (½ cup) unsalted butter with 150g (¾ cup) dark brown sugar and 100ml (⅓ cup) heavy cream. Bring to a gentle boil, then simmer for 3-4 minutes until thickened and fragrant.
- Once baked, let the puddings rest for 5 minutes. Serve warm, drizzled generously with the hot toffee sauce. Optionally, add a dollop of whipped cream or vanilla ice cream.
Allow puddings to rest for 5 minutes before inverting onto plates or serving directly from ramekins. Drizzle with warm toffee sauce and serve immediately while warm and gooey.
How to Know It’s Done
- Puddings are risen and golden on top, with a moist, slightly crackly surface.
- Skewer inserted into the center emerges with moist crumbs, not wet batter.
- Toffee sauce is thick, glossy, and coats the back of a spoon, with a rich caramel aroma.

Individual Sticky Toffee Puddings
Ingredients
Equipment
Method
- Preheat your oven to 180°C (350°F). Grease four small ramekins with butter and lightly dust with flour or sugar, then set aside.
- Combine the chopped dates with boiling water and add the baking soda. Stir and let sit for about 10 minutes until the dates soften and the mixture thickens; this releases their natural caramel flavor.
- In a mixing bowl, cream together the softened butter and dark brown sugar until the mixture is light, fluffy, and fragrant, about 3-4 minutes.
- Beat in the eggs one at a time, followed by the vanilla extract, until the mixture is smooth and well combined.
- Stir the softened dates (including their liquid) into the batter until evenly distributed, then gently fold in the self-raising flour until just combined. Do not overmix to keep it tender.
- Divide the batter evenly among the prepared ramekins, smoothing the tops with a spatula for an even surface.
- Place the ramekins on a baking sheet and bake in the preheated oven for 20-25 minutes, until the tops are golden and a skewer inserted into the center comes out moist with crumbs.
- While they bake, make the toffee sauce by melting butter, dark brown sugar, and heavy cream in a saucepan over medium heat, stirring until smooth and bubbling; simmer for 3-4 minutes until slightly thickened and fragrant.
- Remove the puddings from the oven and let them rest for 5 minutes. Drizzle generously with the warm toffee sauce, allowing it to seep into the sponge and caramelize on top.
- Serve immediately while warm, with extra sauce if desired, and enjoy that gooey, caramel-rich texture that makes this dessert so indulgent.
Notes
Pro tips for perfect sticky toffee pudding
- Bolded mini-head: Use room temperature butter for a creamy, airy sponge—cold butter won’t incorporate as well.
- Bolded mini-head: Soften dates thoroughly in boiling water—this ensures a smooth, gooey texture in every bite.
- Bolded mini-head: Gently fold in flour—overmixing can make the sponge dense, so mix until just combined.
- Bolded mini-head: For a shiny top, brush the pudding with a little melted butter or sugar before baking.
- Bolded mini-head: Check for doneness with a skewer—moist crumbs on insertion mean perfect, gooey interior.
- Bolded mini-head: Serve immediately with hot toffee sauce—damp sponge and sauce should be luscious and warm.
- Bolded mini-head: If the sauce thickens too much, stir in a splash of hot cream—keep it silky and pourable.
Common mistakes and how to fix them
- FORGOT to check oven temperature → Use an oven thermometer for accuracy.
- DUMPED the batter into the pan too quickly → Smooth the surface for even baking.
- OVER-TORCHED the pudding → Lower oven temp slightly if top gets too dark.
- MISSED the resting time → Rest puddings 5 minutes before serving for better texture.
Quick fixes and pantry swaps
- When pudding cracks on top, splash a little hot water over surface and cover for 2 minutes.
- If toffee sauce is too thick, stir in a splash of hot cream or water to loosen.
- Dumped batter into the pan unevenly? Patch with a spatula for an even rise.
- Over-torched edges? Shield with foil and lower oven temp slightly next time.
- When pudding feels too dense, substitute some self-raising flour with a light touch of baking powder.
Prep, store, and reheat tips
- You can prepare the date mixture and soak the dates a day ahead; it saves time and intensifies the caramel flavor.
- Store baked puddings in an airtight container in the fridge for up to 2 days; reheat gently to avoid drying out the sponge.
- The pudding tastes even better the next day as flavors meld—just warm gently in the oven or microwave, watching for a gooey center.
- Reheat the pudding in a low oven (about 150°C/300°F) for 10-15 minutes, until warm and fragrant, with the sauce bubbling slightly.
Top questions about Sticky Toffee Pudding
1. What is sticky toffee pudding?
A moist, dense sponge made with chopped dates, topped with warm, buttery toffee sauce. It’s rich, sweet, and deeply caramelized, often served with cream or ice cream.
2. Which dates work best for this recipe?
Use Medjool dates for best flavor and texture. They become soft and oozy when simmered, adding depth to the pudding.
3. How do I know when it’s done?
Bake the pudding until the top is golden and a skewer inserted in the center comes out with moist crumbs. The edges should be set but the center still gooey.
4. How do I reheat leftovers?
Reheat gently in the oven at around 150°C (300°F) for 10-15 minutes until warm and fragrant. Serve immediately for best gooey texture.
5. Can I make it dairy-free?
You can substitute coconut milk or almond milk for cream in the sauce, though it will be slightly less rich and more fragrant.
6. Can I make this in advance?
Yes, you can prepare the date mixture a day ahead and store baked puddings in the fridge for up to 2 days. Reheat gently before serving.
7. What if it doesn’t turn out perfect?
If the pudding cracks or over-browns, cover with foil and lower the oven temperature slightly. For too thick sauce, stir in hot water or cream.
8. Any tips for perfect baking?
Use room temperature butter and gently fold in flour to keep the sponge tender. Check for doneness with a skewer—moist crumbs are ideal.
9. How should I serve it?
Serve with a generous drizzle of warm toffee sauce, and add whipped cream or vanilla ice cream for extra indulgence.
10. What’s the history of this pudding?
The dish originated in Britain in the 1970s, inspired by date-based desserts from Middle Eastern cuisines, and has become a classic comfort food.
This dessert isn’t just about the sweetness—it’s about the memories stirred with every warm bite. Sharing individual puddings makes each moment feel intimate, like a cozy secret between you and the person across from you.
In the end, it’s that rich, caramel aroma and the gooey texture that make this dish a little special. No matter the occasion, a well-made sticky toffee pudding has a quiet way of making everyone pause and savor.

Hi, I’m Hannah Reynolds, the creator and heart behind Seasoning Therapist. Born and raised in the United States, I grew up in a family where the kitchen was always the coziest gathering spot.